I spoke earlier about not planning your wedding on your own, here is one way to go about this. Try breaking down the wedding planning process. Really focus on goals for the next month and prioritize those goals by giving them due dates. Next look at those goals and see which one you may be more interested in than your partner and take the reins or be the one to follow through on that particular goal. The other partner (or members of your family or friends who have agreed to help) may assist but one person needs to be designated to lead it.
If you would like more assistance, check out my Wedding Coaching Program where I can help you create a planning guide, help with ideas and give you tips on reducing Wedding Planning Stress Disorder aka WPSD.